Category: Getting to Know You
Hey you fellow male zoners out there. I've got a question for you. Do you find faithfulness, commitment, or manogomy to be boring or fulfilling? What is it about men that many of us have to have several women in order to be sexually satisfied? I have my own theory on this. I think it's because, at least for me, every woman is different and every new experience brings something to the table. Women, you're welcome to answer on this as well.
Eddie
I will and always would be faithful when in a relationship. If I want to play the field then I'd certainly be open with any women who wished to be a part of that, and make sure they knew that I'm not up for more than a good time. I realy find unfaithfulness wrong, so hope i would always treat my partner right.
faithful all the way for me...cause i dont like being hurt
myself.
yep I just see this thing with the stereo-typical guy very hard to comprehend. It's just sooo very hurtful! It almost scares me to be in a rwelationship because the guys I seem to fall for seem pretty wild and flurty and I just get so parranoyed. I'm probably opening up a whole new bag of worms with the "flurting" thing. but those who know me will know that I don't understand the logic in that either.
Yep I am always so parranoyed! it hurts! and it makes me always wonder if the whole thing is worth it!
I think it depends on your definition of unfaithful, LOL, as you well know Eddy. Anyways, I think if all parties involved are willing for an open relationship it's no longer unfaithfulness.
I'll tell you why we are all animals and the male naturally wants to spread his genes throught his species so some just can't help straying to do just that..I find monogomy fulfiling the very fact that someone has chosen to be with you and bring up a family, with all that entails, is fantastic..I feel incredibly lucky ..
I don't mind playing the field, but if I find the right girl then its her and only her.
Hi I think that I would see nothing rong with playing the field. How ever if there is someone else invaulved than I feel that I should know about it.
As for an open relationship, If that other person is inckluding me in what is going on, than I do not see that as a problem at least not yet any way.
Matthew
I think that if you have someone that you really care about or think you care about it is wrong to play the field. If you're going to play the field than every one involved desir to know and they should know about all the people that you are involved with
Why do you ask this question anyway
I guess I'm asking the question because people have judged me on the fact that I absolutely love the ladies. They interpret it as a lack of respect for women. I don't intend for it to be such. I think that if all parties are aware of what's going on, this is okay. I've made a promise to myself not to lie anymore and to be honest with whoever I'm involved with. This means that if a person wants to commit and I don't, I will tell her so.
Eddie
Eddie you be yourself mate and dismiss those who judge who are they to moralize about your life.
Well, all of you, what would you consider "playing the field" or plane cheating.
I think online this distinctions becomes dangerously blurry, or perhaps we just think so.
Is playing the field getting to know people, is it kissing, at what point have you cheated on your partner? Is it any physical activitiy (kissing, holding hands or hugging or of course sleeping with someone) or is it what you say or the ideas of your attachments that you convey to the other person (using the l word or saying you find that person beautiful or may be typing out what you'd want to do with those people) do virtual sexual activities equate to the real ones when it comes to "cheating" is it ok to imagine what it would be like to do something with someone online as long as you don't go and do that with that person.
I think online it's just a really tricky and I think one needs to be very careful because it is so easy to get "too involved" in a way because after all .. you can just log out and be back in the real world and, in a way, then the virtual world does not exist any more.
So, where do you draw the lin?
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